How can parents guide their children to study, live and work in an orderly way during the winter vacation, which tests their patience and wisdom? The first education launched a series of "class teachers", inviting class teachers from many schools in Shanghai to give advice to parents on "working with their children".

The topic of this issue revolves around "good habit cultivation": gather "little tigers" with your children and guide them to develop good habits.

Author | Shanghai Jiangning School Liu Beiyun

Ye Shengtao, a famous educationist in modern times, once said: "What is education? In a simple way, just one sentence is to form good habits." It is said that good habits benefit life, however, the cultivation of good habits is not easy. Holidays are not only a time for children to relax and adjust, but also the best time to develop good habits. Dear parents, are you worried about "Little Beast" because of its disorder in work and rest, its love of sleeping late, its boredom at home, its idleness, its over-relaxation, and its unwillingness to study?

On the eve of school, we might as well accompany our children to gather the "little tigers" and guide them to develop good habits.

one

"Weiwei Tiger" with regular work and rest

First of all, we need to work out a schedule with our children and supervise its implementation.

1, the plan should be appropriate

Mom and dad should allocate their time reasonably and scientifically around the main tasks in the holiday according to the actual situation of their children. In the process of consultation and formulation together, they should respect the children’s own ideas and put forward appropriate opinions and suggestions, so as to guide the children to achieve a reasonable and orderly combination of work and rest. Planning should have time to "leave blank" and set aside some discretionary time for children every day.

2, plan execution should be strict.

If "fishing for three days and drying the net for two days", isn’t that a "fake plan"? Therefore, it is necessary to supervise the implementation of the plan. Once the plan cannot be carried out in an emergency, we should guide and help children to make adjustments, so that children can understand that important things must be completed first, and things affected by emergencies can be postponed, but they should also be guaranteed to be completed.

3. There is feedback when the plan is completed.

According to the age characteristics of children, the evaluation nodes of plan implementation are divided. Children in lower grades can be evaluated daily, and children in middle and upper grades can be evaluated in the middle of the week and at weekends.

If the plan is implemented in place, it should be praised and encouraged in time, and spiritual encouragement is more worthy of praise.

For example: watch a movie with children, visit an amusement park, play a board game that children like, and increase the time for free activities on weekends.

If the implementation of the plan is not ideal, let the children find out the reasons themselves and improve in time.

two

"Xiao Zhi Tiger" for Effective Learning

During the holidays, you also have to study.

The significance of winter vacation study lies in keeping the habit and concentration of study. Learning here can be a review of what you learned last semester, a preview of what you will learn next semester, and more importantly, it should include reading extracurricular books every day.

Just sitting at a desk for a fixed time every day and reading an extracurricular book every day can’t be regarded as "effective learning".

To review the old knowledge, we should do: we can summarize and organize. To prepare for the preview, we should be able to ask questions and think. Winter vacation is a good time to do a lot of reading. Choosing suitable reading materials and cooperating with scientific reading methods can improve reading ability with half the effort.

1, the time schedule is exquisite.

The pace of pre-review, homework and reading should be reasonable and the progress should be moderate.

2. Learning companionship is focused.

According to the specific situation of children, parents focus on learning attitude, ability or help to lay a solid foundation. Whether the handwriting in the exercise book is correct or not, and the degree of concentration during homework are all important considerations in judging "effective learning".

3. There are methods for parent-child reading.

When helping children to choose reading materials, parents should not only follow their children’s interest characteristics, but also guide them to dabble in different types of books, classics, biographies, poetry essays, scientific sketches and so on.

A book can be used as a parent-child bibliography for family reading every week to guide children to enrich their reading experience and promote independent thinking by doing excerpts, writing experiences, reading book reviews and imitating paragraphs.

In this process, parents should have full reading communication with their children, summarize the contents of books with their children, understand the author’s situation, or experience the feelings of characters.

There are often parents who are worried that their children can’t write a composition: "I have read a lot of books, so why can’t I write a composition at all?" In fact, there is a problem that the "input" in the reading process is not in place, and the companionship of parents in parent-child reading can help improve this situation.

three

A "darling tiger" who takes care of himself.

Mr Tao Xingzhi said that "life is education". During the holidays, children go out of school and have more time and energy to deal with daily life. Parents can use the holidays to let their children unlock some life skills, so that they can gradually do their own things and help with things at home.

1, the labor project should be appropriate.

According to the actual situation of children, cultivate their awareness and habits of labor, choose suitable labor projects, and mobilize their enthusiasm for labor.

2, labor guidance should be patient.

It always takes a process for children to learn new skills. At first, it may not be ideal or even helpful. Parents should be patient and tolerant of children’s mistakes, and don’t let them try again because they are too troublesome.

3, labor evaluation should be timely.

In the process of helping children to take care of themselves, parents should adhere to positive guidance and evaluate their children’s labor achievements in time, so that children can feel the value and significance of labor, thus mobilizing higher enthusiasm for participating in labor.

four

"Tigger" who loves sports

The importance of sports for children’s healthy growth is self-evident. It can not only make children have a strong body, but also help children improve their concentration, cultivate strong will and exercise their social skills.

Nowadays, "Sunshine Sports Hour" has become a compulsory course for children in school life, and children should also insist on participating in physical exercise during holidays. The purpose of sports is to exercise the body and mind, so parents can choose suitable sports according to their children’s age and interests, arouse their children’s enthusiasm for participation, and let them enjoy the fun of sports and the sense of accomplishment in the process of playing.

1, the combination of knowledge and interest

This year’s winter vacation coincides with the Winter Olympics. Parents may wish to learn about the knowledge of the Winter Olympics with their children and understand the unique charm of ice and snow sports. If possible, they can also take their children to experience it for themselves.

2. Perseverance is the key.

Persistence is the key to exercise, and the intensity of exercise should be arranged step by step, so as to be scientific and controllable and safety first.

3, role models are indispensable.

If children want to love sports, parents should set an example. They should not only make good use of sports resources in their lives and seize sports opportunities, but also strive to create an atmosphere in which family sports play together. Morning running with children, badminton for two and parent-child sports games are all great choices!

five

A "thunderbolt tiger" who cherishes time and keeps promises.

Many teachers may feel the same way as me. Every time I start school, I will find that there are obvious differences among the children who used to behave almost in all aspects in the class, which is not unrelated to holiday life.

During the holidays, it is inevitable that some children will relax their requirements, and the use of electronic products such as mobile phones and ipad will be relatively relaxed. Some senior children never leave their mobile phones all day, and they enjoy brushing short videos, chatting with people and playing games online, so their eyesight is inevitable. Once you are addicted to it, it is naturally difficult to keep up with the normal learning rhythm when you start school, and the difference arises. Therefore, parents should pay special attention to the control of their children’s electronic products during holidays.

In life, some children are labeled as "other people’s children". Sometimes it is surprising that these children are excellent in their studies, have a wide range of interests, and even play games very well!

According to my observation, IQ and ability are part of the reason, but the most important reason is self-discipline and efficiency.

They have clear goals and strong actions. When they know how to study, they will study hard and concentrate on it. Only in this way can they enjoy themselves while playing. The formation of these good habits is the result of parents’ high-quality companionship.

1, take three chapters to make rules

In the information age, it is impossible for children not to touch electronic products, but for minors, parents must have a prior agreement with their children, and the duration of use and the content of browsing should be limited.

2. Priorities should be clearly defined

From an early age, parents should help their children with time management training and teach them to correctly deal with what they like to do and what they must do.

3. There are clever ways to reduce "dependence"

For children who use electronic products too much, parents should not only set a good example and reduce the use of mobile phones in front of their children for a long time, but also analyze the reasons why children are obsessed with games. For children who want to gain a sense of accomplishment from games, parents should pay more attention to multiple evaluations and give their children recognition of "self-worth". For children who just want to experience the game process, parent-child companionship, the cultivation of hobbies and increasing peer interaction are good ways to reduce dependence.

In order to successfully collect these five "little tigers",

Please check the following three tips:

First, the habit of Excellence is the real Excellence.

Knowledge is not enough, you can learn slowly; Ability is not enough, you can cultivate it slowly. Only good habits can’t wait.

Second, good habits are the product of perseverance.

Habit formation is not achieved overnight, and it can only be achieved by continuous efforts and persistence towards the goal.

Third, the reward mechanism is a necessary means to develop good habits.

Finding children’s little progress and using appropriate reward mechanism will help to make them happy, stimulate their motivation and help them to be full of upward motivation.

In the Year of the Tiger, let the lovely five "little tigers" accompany the children, sow good habits and reap happy growth.

Author: Liu Beiyun, Jiangning School, Shanghai

Xiao Fuhu: Kong Lingzhe, Class 53, Jiangning School, Shanghai

Photo courtesy: Ke Yuetong, Wu Tianyu, Huang Zijun, Zhou Yunyu, Class 53, Jiangning School, Shanghai

Shangguan author: the first education

The national security-themed anti-espionage drama "Eye of the Storm" will take over the TV series "Right Youth" on Zhejiang Satellite TV and Oriental TV, broadcast on February 23, and be launched simultaneously on iQiyi and Tencent video.

The play is starring Yang Mi and Vin. Some netizens have noticed that after the broadcast of Eye of the Storm, it means that we have been screened by Yang Mi since we entered the Year of the Ox.

Yang Mi appeared in the Spring Festival Evening of New Year’s Eve; On the second day of New Year’s Day, it was immediately her new movie A Writer’s Odyssey; No, I have arranged another "Eye of the Storm" non-stop. This is a rare high-density new work in Yang Mi after years, following swords of legends, Tiny Times and breakup guru.

However, the big difference is that the last time Yang Mi frantically swiped the screen, it came easily, the box office sold well, and the ratings were bright, which made Yang Mi sit firmly in the post-85 s first-line Hua Dan seat. However, this time, it was not as easy as last time.

In the Eye of the Storm, Yang Mi is no longer the heroine of an idol drama who can only talk about love. She has become a serious and meticulous head of the reconnaissance department of the National Security Bureau. She must take a professional and dedicated work attitude, instead of laughing and joking to capture the audience. For such a breakthrough role, whether Yang Mi can rely on this role to prove that she can successfully reverse her image and step into the ranks of Tsing Yi, netizens have expressed their disappointment.

The first reason for not being optimistic is because of the behind-the-scenes team of the play. Whether it is a movie or a TV series, it is the director and screenwriter who decide the lower limit of the work. The most vivid positive case, the drama of Noon Sunshine House, even if the ratings are not as good as expected, why can each score get such a good score? The director and his team are the basics, and there is no difference.

The director of this film "Eye of the Storm", Jinsha, is probably unheard of by most netizens. So far, I tell you that she is also the director of "Building a Dream" and "Thunder Wars". I won’t talk about more. After seeing these two dramas, I know how to understand it naturally, and I will give up in minutes.

Liang Zhenhua, the screenwriter, is not very good either. His representative works, such as "Beauty in the West" and "Dog Seven", are second-rate. Under the background of such fierce competition in film and television dramas, he can’t get it at all.

Sometimes, the effect of 1+1 may not be equal to 2. This time, the director and screenwriter together are unlikely to be negative and positive. Therefore, the possibility of this drama being wonderful and good-looking is slim.

After talking behind the scenes, switch to the stage. In addition to starring Yang Mi and Vin, the rest of the actors, Wayne, Daisy  and Lawrence Wang, may not be familiar with their names, but they all know by looking at their faces. These are all contracted artists of Yang Mi Company who have been brought to one TV series after another by Yang Mi. In other words, this drama is another drama of Yang Mi dairy newcomers. Yang Mi can’t say for certain that he hasn’t been able to make any bright performance yet, so he has to leave all the limelight to the newcomers.

Finally, this drama is under the banner of "Contemporary National Security City Anti-Spy Drama", and the protagonists are a group of national security players who protect the country’s rare resources from being smuggled and traded by foreign forces. It looks very innovative. However, according to the usual "excellent tradition" of Chinese domestic dramas, no matter what kind of dramas they are, they may all be made into love dramas. Perhaps, the audience will have to watch the national security theme version of Meteor Garden again. Holding a new bottle of old wine, if Yang Mi goes back to the old road, he will undoubtedly wait for the audience to vomit.

Unfortunately, A Writer’s Odyssey, the new film released in Yang Mi this time, may face the situation that the cost is hard to recover. For this A Writer’s Odyssey, Yang Mi not only starred in N times, but also worked hard to promote it, stopped all his work and always participated in the activities of this film. Unfortunately, things are sometimes so unsatisfactory, and the box office results never come up, which makes Yang Mi’s hard work go down the drain and looks a little unlucky.

Yang Mi, born in 1986, is officially 35 years old this year. At this age, she can’t be counted as a flower as beautiful as jade, and she can never be called Little Hua Dan again. Yang Mi herself is well aware of the cruelty of the entertainment circle and the ruthlessness of the years, and tries to transform again and again. If it is still like this, she will miss the opportunity again and again, and this stormy entertainment circle will really make her untenable. On-Moon Arc

　　Ma Huateng, deputy to the National People’s Congress and chairman and CEO of Tencent, released his suggestions at the media meeting. Beijing News reporter Jin Yushe

　　Ma Huateng, deputy to the National People’s Congress and chairman and CEO of Tencent, released his seven suggestions at the media communication meeting yesterday. Apart from suggestions on personal information security, it also involves the digital economy, building a world-class science and technology bay area in Guangdong, Hong Kong and Macao, healthy internet access for minors, and sponge city construction. In the past five years, he has brought more than 20 written suggestions to the National People’s Congress.

　　★ News memory

　　Xu Yuyu died after being cheated of 9900 yuan. The investigation ended.

　　According to media reports, the case of "Xu Yuyu being defrauded by telecom", which has aroused public concern, was investigated by the public security organs in Linyi City, Shandong Province, and the case has been transferred to the procuratorial organs for review and prosecution. Ma Jianbin, deputy director of the National Student Financial Assistance Management Center of the Ministry of Education, said in an interview with People’s Daily recently that the Xu Yuyu incident was very distressing. After being detected by the public security department, although it was not directly related to the education department, this incident also sounded the alarm for us, and we will further strengthen the confidentiality of students’ personal information.

　　On the evening of August 19, 2016, Chen and other criminal suspects defrauded Xu Yuyu, a student from luozhuang, Linyi City, Shandong Province, of 9900 yuan in the name of granting scholarships to poor students. Xu Yuyu found himself cheated and went to the police station with his father. On his way home, he felt unwell and died on August 21st.

　　sound

　　The problem of personal information security in big data environment is particularly prominent, and individual rights and interests, public order and national security have been seriously affected, which has aroused widespread concern in the whole society. Strengthening the security protection of personal information in the big data environment is an important issue that needs to be solved urgently. At present, the disclosure of personal information is very serious and needs to be solved urgently. —— Ma Huateng

　　Talking about information security

　　We should further crack down on reselling personal privacy information.

　　Reporter: From the case of Xu Yuyu, we can see that the personal information of citizens is seriously leaked at present. In your opinion, what is the real leakage of personal information at present? A lot of personal information is packaged and sold through platforms such as WeChat and QQ. What has Tencent done?

　　Ma Huateng: We did observe that there is a lot of information used for trading and exchange in many QQ groups and WeChat. Therefore, recently, with the support of the Ministry of Public Security and the Ministry of Industry and Information Technology, we have made a relatively big move. In fact, it has been cracking down on personal information transactions, but this kind of transactions is really secretive. For example, what they say is completely code names, terms, and keywords can’t be retrieved. Therefore, it is still necessary to find out the problem from other channels.

　　In addition to using the big data model to analyze, we can’t get away from the most earthy and stupid method. We call it "putting a snake", which means that if you want to buy this information, you can basically find a string by really going through the whole process.

　　Of course, the police and public security departments should pay attention to cracking down on crimes and arresting people. We suggest to intensify the crackdown instead of launching a campaign. Although this is a complicated matter, I believe it can always be solved as long as I think about it and try it every day.

　　I call for a stronger crackdown, for example, to further crack down on the reselling of personal privacy information, which is the main source of many fraud crimes, and it needs to be strengthened at both the legislative and law enforcement levels.

　　Talking about Mobile Payment in real-name registration system

　　Big data should not collect too much personal privacy information.

　　Reporter: You said that mobile payment of real-name registration system may be an effective means to protect personal information. However, after mobile payment in real-name registration system, a lot of information, including personal credit evaluation, will be in the hands of Tencent or other platforms. Is this privacy risk tolerable?

　　Ma Huateng: After a relatively large network telecom fraud incident occurred in the second half of 2016, all operators, networks and banks acted as a whole. The real-name that failed to land for many years was completely implemented in these months.

　　Therefore, at present, not only operators, including network terminals and banks, have been fully real-named, but the regulatory authorities are also stepping up their special crackdown on the sale of citizens’ personal information. However, for experienced "black products" (black industries), they can’t stop him.

　　Nowadays, there are many people reselling ID cards on the Internet. For example, using a little kindness to trick farmers into lending their ID cards to "black products" to buy bank cards, communication cards, etc., there is no problem from the data. In addition, if personal information is collected too comprehensively, it will cause greater secondary disasters in case it is abused by others or stolen by an employee.

　　Therefore, I suggest that big data should not collect so much personal privacy information, and should only collect necessary or even desensitized information. At present, many enterprises keep their personal information in disorder and lack basic work.

　　Talking about Internet medical treatment

　　Release the energy of a good 3A hospital.

　　Reporter: Internet medical care has always been controversial. On February 8, Baidu announced the overall abolition of the mobile medical business unit. On March 3rd, Dr. Baidu announced that it would be officially shut down on April 1st. Tencent has also been exploring in this regard. You once said that you would break the information island problem of medical institutions. What do you think of Internet medical treatment? Can Tencent disclose its annual R&D investment and business performance in the field of Internet medical care?

　　Ma Huateng: I think "+"medical care and education are the most difficult problems in the field of internet plus. It is very complicated, and the gameplay is different from each angle. There are many and complicated chains. In particular, there are policy issues in medical care, such as medical insurance and separation of medicines. Therefore, in the past, Tencent’s idea was to invest in many Internet medical companies and cut into the market from different angles.

　　We hope to build another platform on our traffic platform, including social networks and communication platforms, so that enterprises that we have invested (or other enterprises that have not invested) and enterprises that are interested in developing in this industry can make good use of our platform (there is a medical and health sub-platform for them), which is the problem we are thinking about.

　　We still hope that the national policy can release the energy of good top three hospitals and good doctors.

　　There is still a problem, that is, medicine is not separated, and a lot of consultation fees and medical expenses are obtained through the superposition of medicines. This is unhealthy in the long run, but there is no way to simply change it.

　　How to combine medical equipment with the Internet of Things? I see a development trend in this respect, and I am also very interested. Therefore, I also encourage more people to invest in this industry.

　　Talking about children’s online games

　　Make an appointment for the game time and establish the concept of budget.

　　Reporter: As a father, how do you manage and guide your children to surf the Internet and play online games? Tencent recently launched a growth monitoring platform to help parents understand and guide their children’s online game behavior. What do you think of the effectiveness of this platform? Will you use this platform to understand and manage your children’s online game behavior?

　　Ma Huateng: I judge products by personal experience. The team mentioned this plan to me before. For example, parents can let their children play games on weekends through platform settings, and they can’t play during school from Monday to Friday.

　　I also use this way to make an appointment with my children for game time, not to give it across the board. The game does have its advantages, but it should not be excessive and addicted, and time should be managed well. Establish the concept of budget for children, and there is also a quota for consumption. After spending, there will be no more. I think it is very good to provide such a tool that parents and children can manage it together. (Jin Yu)

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